AVOID BEING FRIENDS WITH PEOPLE WHO HAVE BORDERLINE PERSONALITY DISORDER
They'll be your friend only if you can pump up their deflated ego.
Because people with this disorder don't have a healthy self-identity.
Whatever you do, don't be intrinsically better than them. Even if you've been the best friend in the world to them, they will choose the less attractive loser friend who treated them like shit because they NEED to feel better than the people around them.
I bet Gwyneth Paltrow suffers this affliction as she is only friends with the better looking Madonna only because Madonna is so much older than her. This disorder shows in the whole Iron Man ScarJo debacle...
~The source added: “Gwyneth is not friendly to anyone, and tends to make people feel awkward and uncomfortable. She wasn’t outright rude to Scarlett, she just didn’t ever speak to her. Gwyneth went out of her way to avoid Scarlett, and they had zero contact, at Gwyneth’s choosing.”~
These people are not only crappy friends but crappy relatives as well.
What to look for: people who really aren't beautiful but marginally attractive but better looking than their families who told them they were beautiful. They are constantly grappling with their own sense of attractiveness which others have to deal. STAY AWAY!!!
I'm sorry but anyone who thinks she is pretty probably isn't so pretty
Lots of people are fooled into thinking they are attractive because of a blond dye job and light eyes because folks will do a double take (assuring the non attractive person that people are 'checking them out'). Also, non attractive people from non attractive families cannot tell the difference in bone structure. They look at clothes, tans and makeup jobs.
Not to be a bitch...BUT anyone who thinks Gwyneth Paltrow & Nicole Kidman are gorgeous or even pretty CANNOT be a looker themselves and that goes for anyone in their immediate family. Sorry.
Here are the signs to look out for re: BPD~
http://www.mentalhealth.com/dis/p20-pe05.htmlhttp://www.mentalhealth.com/dis/p20-pe05.html
Emotionally Unstable (Borderline) Personality Disorder is a condition characterized by impulsive actions, rapidly shifting moods, and chaotic relationships. The individual usually goes from one emotional crisis to another. Often there is dependency, separation anxiety, unstable self-image, chronic feelings of emptiness, and threats of self-harm (suicide or self-mutilation). This disorder is only diagnosed when these behaviors become persistent and very disabling/distressing.
My BPD friend freaked out when she called me for info on how to get pregnant. Always the good friend and cat mother, I directed her to my ex-boyfriend, the radiologist who owns his own practice for some testing. She freaked out because my history of dating didn't include useless losers (some were) after useless losers like her boyfriends & now husband. I'll get into this another time but I'm sure ya'll know the BPD that has touched your lives.
p.s. I used SJP & Courtney because my ex-friend is, sadly, a cross between them both.
Because people with this disorder don't have a healthy self-identity.
Whatever you do, don't be intrinsically better than them. Even if you've been the best friend in the world to them, they will choose the less attractive loser friend who treated them like shit because they NEED to feel better than the people around them.
I bet Gwyneth Paltrow suffers this affliction as she is only friends with the better looking Madonna only because Madonna is so much older than her. This disorder shows in the whole Iron Man ScarJo debacle...
~The source added: “Gwyneth is not friendly to anyone, and tends to make people feel awkward and uncomfortable. She wasn’t outright rude to Scarlett, she just didn’t ever speak to her. Gwyneth went out of her way to avoid Scarlett, and they had zero contact, at Gwyneth’s choosing.”~
These people are not only crappy friends but crappy relatives as well.
What to look for: people who really aren't beautiful but marginally attractive but better looking than their families who told them they were beautiful. They are constantly grappling with their own sense of attractiveness which others have to deal. STAY AWAY!!!
I'm sorry but anyone who thinks she is pretty probably isn't so pretty
Lots of people are fooled into thinking they are attractive because of a blond dye job and light eyes because folks will do a double take (assuring the non attractive person that people are 'checking them out'). Also, non attractive people from non attractive families cannot tell the difference in bone structure. They look at clothes, tans and makeup jobs.
Not to be a bitch...BUT anyone who thinks Gwyneth Paltrow & Nicole Kidman are gorgeous or even pretty CANNOT be a looker themselves and that goes for anyone in their immediate family. Sorry.
Here are the signs to look out for re: BPD~
http://www.mentalhealth.com/dis/p20-pe05.htmlhttp://www.mentalhealth.com/dis/p20-pe05.html
Emotionally Unstable (Borderline) Personality Disorder is a condition characterized by impulsive actions, rapidly shifting moods, and chaotic relationships. The individual usually goes from one emotional crisis to another. Often there is dependency, separation anxiety, unstable self-image, chronic feelings of emptiness, and threats of self-harm (suicide or self-mutilation). This disorder is only diagnosed when these behaviors become persistent and very disabling/distressing.
My BPD friend freaked out when she called me for info on how to get pregnant. Always the good friend and cat mother, I directed her to my ex-boyfriend, the radiologist who owns his own practice for some testing. She freaked out because my history of dating didn't include useless losers (some were) after useless losers like her boyfriends & now husband. I'll get into this another time but I'm sure ya'll know the BPD that has touched your lives.
p.s. I used SJP & Courtney because my ex-friend is, sadly, a cross between them both.
Posted by sickitten at Tuesday, August 18. 2009 
Categories: Tips,Gwyneth Paltrow
Tags: Borderline Personality Disorder Personality Disorders
Categories: Tips,Gwyneth Paltrow
Tags: Borderline Personality Disorder Personality Disorders
I think people should avoid being friends with you. People with BPD can't help it and you're telling the world hey I think we should shun these people, when actually they need help.
You are not a psych so don't go diagnosing celebrities and people you don't know.
BTW I'm an interface designer and your website has the worst colour scheme I've come across. Pink and green...thank god I'm not colour blind. Not only that your layout is completely all over the place.
For a person that is blogging about celebrities your website doesn't even compare to them I don't know how any one would take you serious with this disgusting piece of space on the interwebs.
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An English major, you surely aren't. Pink Tourmaline and Peridot, green Tourmalina or Emerald is the hottest combo. Former jewelry designer here, but thanks any way. I want to keep my web design "hokie" because it proves I'm not selling anything. It's "take you seriously" dumbo.. It's "a lot" not alot. Gives you away. BTW, even therapists shun BPD people. Get your fucking act together! Welcome. I can tell you'll be a regular here.
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Well, maybe you haven't ever been burned by someone with bpd, and you should be very glad! Because, yes you are right they do have a malfunction in their brain, but they still have to be accountable for their actions. And because of their disorder, they can, and usually do, cause havoic and pain for not only others but for their own families as well. The statistics do not lie, maybe you should do some research on it before you start defending them. Andy yes, the only way to avoid being hurt or tarnished by someone with bpd is to stay away from them!
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Wait, What? Are you referring to me or the commentator w/the poor grammar? I have been burned by these fuckers that's why I'm warning others to avoid them at all costs. They've always gotta have it out for at least someone. Someone at work and someone in their circle of friends. They either love you or hate you, no shade in between. I didn't post that to hurt people who are afflicted but rather to protect my readers. Even people in the mental health field avoid them. That should tell you something. Avoid these people and TRADE UP!
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Nazi Germany was defeated in 1945 yet it seems its idealogy lives on. Your narrow minded fascist like views serve to both discredit you and illustrate how limited you are as a human being. To condemn a set of people for their perceived characteristics is nothing short of cheap and easy categorising, something the Nazis were very good at. I hope you recover from your malaise of mind. You are guilty of the very thing you accuse BPDs of,black and white thinking. Please engage YOUR brain before allowing YOUR emotions to get the better of YOU.
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I am NOT giving a sociopath or BPD people a pass! Do not pass GO, do not collect $200.
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Obviously this guy has never been involved with someone who suffers from BPD. If he had, he would know your advice is spot on. I feel bad for anyone with any mental illness or personality disorder, but if you ever become the brunt of a BPD's "distortion campaign" or general obsessive and impulsive behaviors, you will then understand! I had to go to the police and eventually to family court to prevent my ex from stalking me and harassing me. She has admitted to being diagnosed BPD and had I known then what I know know, I would have run. It has nothing to do with prejudice, just common sense.
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Wow. I dont think you realize how much of a bitch this post makes you look like? Just because someone has a mental illness dosent mean its okay for you to judge them and make assumptions about them. A LOT of people often need ego boosts. Does that mean they all have BPD ? NO! You are just stereotyping people here based on ONE PERSON that -YOU- have known with this mental illness that they probably cant have much control over sadly. NOT everyone with BPD is like that person. ALSO the symptoms vary and obviously range in severity depending on the individual. Also "needed ego boosts" dont have much in common with the "identity disturbance" which sufferers often deal with, usually its people not really knowning who they are. As i said before symptoms vary. Oh and by the way. You're probably just pissed of because she was a "bitch" to you or something, i dont blame her.. you really need to pull your head out of your ass. You're obviously upset since you're ranting like a banshee about it. Get the fuck over it and most importantly GET OVER YOURSELF. :)
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